Long Live the Asian Leprechaun!!!

Thanks for sharing all your embarrassing childhood family stories.

Not only did I laugh my ass off reading all of them but I also now feel much better knowing I wasn't the only kid with a bowl haircut who grew up riding a girl's bicycle while wearing orange corduroys and eating a kimchi sandwich.

So many of you submitted so many great stories that had me both laughing and cringing at the same time: Crapping your pants in your dad's police car. Boys being dressed in their older sisters' hand-me-downs. Getting your hair cut by your mother in a style that can best be described as Romulan-meets-Caveman. Having your parents show naked pictures of you to all your friends. Watching in horror as your mother comes to your school dressed as a clown. Opening your lunch box in school only to find a giant pig's foot in it. And let's not forget all the shocking training bra stories!

The list goes on and on. It's a wonder that ANY of us ever survived our childhoods, isn't it?

However, as with any contest such as this, there can only be one winner. And like most of you, the clear winner for me was Stephen Joyce's traumatic tale of going to school on St. Patrick's Day dressed like a leprechaun:

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"Wow, this is like reading my life story. Like you, I try to play a bigger role in the raising of my two daughters and I sometimes wonder what kind of impact I'm having on their formative minds."

"Anyway, the story that always brings tears of laughter to my wife is the one of my very first St. Patrick's Day. My family moved from Malaysia to Canada in 1977 and it was my very first year at a public school. Since the tradition for St. Patrick's Day is to wear something green, my Mom thought it would be great if I went to school in an all green outfit, oh heck, how about a leprechaun outfit."

"Yep, that's right, my Mom sewed me a full on leprechaun outfit complete with a little hat and shoes, all made out of felt. Did I mention the green tights. Needless to say, there is nothing quite as hilarious to a group of second graders than a little Asian kid wearing green tights and walking around in the miserable March rains wearing green felt slippers. For added embarrassment, my second grade teacher ask me to stand on my chair so that all the kids could have a good look at my costume. Nice."

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All hail the Asian Leprechaun! Congrats, Stephen. With a story like that, you deserve a great prize. E-mail me your shipping address. You are now the proud winner of (1) a brand-new Phillips Senseo Single-Serve Coffee Pod System (2) a DVD of the hit comedy "Borat", and (3) an autographed poster of Mandy Moore.

Now, for some quick housecleaning...

(1) I've always hated the way that this site looks. Long-time readers may remember that the previous style of this site was even worse and was best described as looking like a pumpkin threw up on a pile of poo. As for this template, is it me or is it really hard to read? The font seems small and it's hard to read against a grey background, isn't it? What's your opinion? All I care about is the writing. How can I make this site as easy to read as possible?

(2) I also would love to have a new banner. However, if you haven't guessed already, I'm completely design illiterate when it comes to anything related to computers. That's why I'm coming to all of you for help. So many of you are so incredibly talented when it comes to this stuff. How about we have a contest? Design a banner that you think would be great for this site. I'll pick my favorites and put up the finalists for a vote.

The winner will receive (1) a brand-new Apple Shuffle, (2) a full ensemble of work-out/casual athletic clothing, and (3) a $50 American Express gift certificate.

E-mail me your entries over the next few weeks. Let's see what you've got! Feel free to pass the word along.

(3) If any of you are interested, here's a brief interview I did with the lovely Karen Cheng, Australia's version of Dooce, Design Sponge, and Smitten Kitchen all rolled up into one. Karen is an amazing blogger who apparently gets more traffic than google. Read her site and you'll quickly see why.

(3) One last thing...Valentine's Day is coming up. For those of you with kids, how the hell do you find a babysitter? And do you think it's true that nothing says "I love you" like a big-ass plasma television for the bedroom? Or is that kind of like the time Homer gave Marge a bowling ball for her birthday?

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Comments

[Miriam]

1. If you make the background a lighter shade of grey, it will be much easier to read. Also, you are using a sans-serif font, which is typically difficult to read unless it is used strictly as a headline. Stick to a serif font (Palatino is my favorite) for areas with lots of text, and use your sans serif font of choice for bolded headlines.

2. The banner is just boring. I'm sure lots of people will be sending you some great ones to choose from.

3. Karen's site led me to yours.

4. Start by asking every babysitter you already know. If you still cannot find someone, a great deal breaker would be to choose your ideal babysitter, contact the significant other, and arrange a gift certificate for a nice restaurant for the evening after Valentine's Day. Suddenly your ideal babysitter will be free.

[the mad momma]

white background and black text with a bigger font would make it perfect. i love the little silhouette thingie though and will miss it if you get something new.

nothing says i love you like oh.. i dont know, a ski vacation, diamonds, chocolates...

tv - well it depends on how much tv you watch. i would never give my husband one because he watches way too much tv anyway. i'll be damned if i make it more tempting and that too in the bedroom.

[elsu]

Nothing says lovin' to me like the closeout laptop my husband just bought me last night from our CompUSA store. And yes, I'm being serious. I wanted a new laptop.

[whit]

Going to dinner on VD (not WITH VD) will only make you frustrated. Plus, dinner for two in NYC, plus drinks, cab, dancing/movie, etc., a nice LCD screen might be cheaper and it keeps on giving.

[Stephen Joyce]

Thanks for all the comments. I always enjoy telling that story because it really illustrates the perils of trying too hard to fit into a new culture. That and it is so ridiculously funny! Anyway, I can't wait to hang up my Mandy Moore poster. I'll put up next to my Knight Rider and Transformer posters. My 7 year old will be sooo jealous.

[dana]

With respect, it doesn't seem right to compare Karen Cheng to Dooce. She takes lovely photographs and writes sincerely. But I don't think her posts pack the same emotional punch as Dooce's.
For instance, her post re: her husband's cancer is undoubtedly heartfelt and honest. But it doesn't bowl you over with the emotive power and raw truth found in Dooce's posts about her struggle with PPD or even her gut-wrenching love for her daughter.
Karen's just not as gifted a writer -- which doesn't mean she doesn't have interesting things to say.
I'm just sayin...

[pnuts mama]

pnuts daddy has class thursday night- so if you're not too beneath dining out in the queens/nassau area, feel free to drop your peanut here and the pnut and i can entertain her while you wine and dine the bosslady...if not i've found craigslist nyc to be useful for such last minute endeavors...

and i always think nothing says i love you like taking a long weekend somewhere wonderful for just the two of you- time together and making memories are meaningful, not another "thing" that will eventually be obsolete and tossed in the trash or upgraded- i don't know, that's just me...

[Sassy]

I'm so glad the leprechaun won. He so deserves it after all that suffering.

Blog wise it isn't that bad. Mine is terrible; too busy and too pink. I think the easiest font to read is supposed to be white on black, but I really agree that more colour would be nice. But hey, this is your place, do what you want.

My husbands new template is very orange -
http://bobswisdomabounds.blogspot.com/

[kate]

My babysitting advice is not to be afraid to ask people who are older, i.e, college students. I started babysitting when I was about 14, but it wasn't until I started university that I started appreciating my babysitting jobs. Those Uni students be poor, yo! Unfortunately, after I left high school, a lot of the families I used to babysit for were under the impression I'd be "over it" by then. My response to them-hell, no! It seemed like very easy money to me...and I was only charging 5 bucks an hour. And was doing all the food preparation, homework, cleaning up, toothbrushing, etc, without prompting. Imagine my surprise as I slowly came to realise that my fellow babysitting peers were asking for $20+ an hour, to simply sit in the same house as the kids and do nothing, and then expected to be paid "bonuses" for doing "extra work". e.g, reading the poor kid a book. What in the name of ra? If people think looking after a kid for a few hours is this much of a personal inconvenience, then frankly, I wouldn't want them looking after my kid.

[Deanna]

How do I find a baby-sitter for Valentine's Day?

I have a 15-year-old sister who is broke. And if she is REALLY unavailable, she has many friends who are also broke.

The end. :)

[LeeAnn]

A TV is better than getting mufflers for your car. Let's just say that was one of the many reasons why I have husband number 2!

[Lilly]

I don't have kids, but I am a babysitter. And I have to second the poster who mentioned ever-broke college students. Except a few baby-phobes, I don't know anyone who isn't envious of my job. I basically get to chill with an adorable kid all afternoon- park, Starbucks, museum, whatever- and get paid for it. Plus, during naptime, or if it's a late-night affair, you're basically being paid to study while the kid sleeps.

The first family I worked for met me in the elevator of our building and hired me on the spot (blind trust, or faith in the mandatory criminal background check required in the lease?) Once I had worked for them for a while, and professed sufficient loyalty, they started pimping me out to their friends.

Do you have interns? With enough cash, they might be tempted to put in a night every once in a while. Or you could always nanny-poach at the park and try to find someone looking to pick up some more hours.

No matter how much you pay the sitter, if the kid is a nightmare, you're going to have problems. Seeing as Peanut seems to be the opposite of a nightmare, I think you'll be fine.

[tiny cricket]

barnard has a great babysitting service. don't get scared off by the overly cheery website. hope it works out for you...

http://eclipse.barnard.columbia.edu/~bbsitter/

[not her]

I am design-impaired, but hope that your changes include making the post font bigger. I had to hold the screen inches from my face to read today's post.

[Mama Nabi]

1. Damn, if I had known that Mandy Moore poster was part of the deal, I'd have tried harder with embarrassing story.
2. I am neither a designer nor so old that I can't read your font, not yet anyway. That said, as long as my eyesight lets me, I think I'll still be reading your blog even if a blah beige were to replace the currently oh-so-hip grey beehive hexagon background. Really. That's devotion, dude.
3) Nothing says I love you like a plasma TV... in the bedroom, no less. You da man. (Okay, don't pay attention to my #3... I wouldn't know a good valentine's day gift even if one hit me in th eyeball.)

[kerflop]

You might have more luck with a redesign and blog banner by just paying a designer for the services. I've had a handful of people send your link my way, and while I hope it works out for you I'm just to busy to design something on the off chance it might be chosen.

Another vote for black type on a white background here, and a larger font size. You could have a CSS button that would enlarge or shrink your type face and also change the layout from black on white to white on black for those who prefer it. Ah, the magic of CSS ;o)

[pokettiger]

There is probably some truth to readability being better with black on white. Or any dark color on white. Your writing always makes me laugh so I'd keep coming back even if I needed to use a magnifying glass. I have put together a little banner design but I am going to email it to you to check out.

[creative-type dad]

We got lucky with the babysitter - we have 3 friends with 12-year olds.

They work for cheap and don't eat much. What else can you ask for?

[Sean]

I have not played around much with Movable Type but you should be able to change the font size in the CSS file. Personally, I would not change the font size, anyone with a current browser can change the font size to whatever they want (hold down Ctrl and move your mouse wheel up or down). However I would suggest increasing your line-height. This would add space between each line of text and would make it a little easier to read. Hope this helps, now I just need to find the time to work up a banner for you.

[alice, uptown]

When you get far enough from your childhood, it gets easier to block the mortifying memories -- or you find that you and your parents have mutually exclusive ones.

I do pity the poor Asian Lephrechaun. That memory seems indelible.

[alice, uptown]

When you get far enough from your childhood, it gets easier to block the mortifying memories -- or you find that you and your parents have mutually exclusive ones.

I do pity the poor Asian Lephrechaun. That memory seems indelible.